How performance candid in front of friends
If you are behind others ill know, you should not deny your words, or it is not only do not believe you will therefore look down on you. At this point you’d better recognize:
If it is due to slip of the tongue by the person questioned, you can sincerely say:
When the lie was exposed, you can only admit:
If you want to explain why lying will only make each other’s anger more. If you are a guest in someone’s home, accidentally broke the people’s precious ornaments, and you should immediately that you will try to buy a compensation not to let the matter rest. If you do not understand someone else to talk about or laughing at the spot advice to others.
How to maintain credibility in front of friends
True to its word is a man of virtue, is also dating criteria. Once integrity is lost, you may lose a lot of opportunities, and even her friends.
In March 1797, Napoleon, accompanied by his new wife to visit a primary school in Luxembourg by the hospitality of the school teachers and students. Napoleon couple was glad to spot presented a bouquet to the principal value of three daughter of Louis (France ancient unit of currency, a gold Louis is equal to 20 francs), roses, and promised: Today, I will send someone to give equal to the value of your school a bunch of roses. Later, for whatever reason, this great man did not realize his promise. In 1984, the Luxembourg government revisit the matter, roses outstanding The French government could not bear to sentence and to pay such a high price, but considering the reputation of Napoleon’s, had to write a tactful wording of an apology letter, considered the end of the Exchanges between friends, you must give a sense of trust, which is self-evident. So how to make friends trust you? Very simple, you just the same mood to understand each other’s troubles and requirements, but also psychological resonance, also known as For example, when talking with friends, listening to friends an opinion on the one hand you want to nod their consent, one side should be appropriate to repeat to each other, so you can let the other side feeling of being taken seriously, and thus involuntarily to say the truth to you .
                  
81: as a friend to keep a secret
Secrecy as a friend
Words and deeds and hearts too clean to get a friend, and often have self-pollution, to do some sloppy things like Xiao, or at least make up some of this sort of thing, in order to win the friendship. This is the so-called In other words, to clear without a friend.
Precisely because of the eternal conflict of moral Customs and norms and of human nature, so pour the needs of the inner secret, this kind of psychological need to constitute a desire for friendship.
Pour inner secret must be mutual. Sometimes you do not have a friend as a confidant, but he was impulsive privacy tell you, if you cherish the friendship, you is necessary to own a similar secret to tell him. If necessary, or even fabricated a similar scandals, both on his comfort in order to enable him afterwards do not have to tell you that his privacy disturbed. The exchange of the secret of the secret allows two people have the insurance factor. If you know the secrets of others instead of their own secrets with them to exchange, then you become a We need to understand that friends his privacy reason tells us, want us to win our sympathy, and sympathy and affection, in a timely manner to help him think of other methods. Privacy know the range is not only Friends to tell their In this regard, you have only his obligation to share those concerns, not this kind of If you can not be kept confidential, and interested in gossip, made public the secret of a friend, could cause a lot of people bustle, and even to distort the facts, so that is not conducive to problem-solving, but also might mess it up. More importantly, you will lose a friend, even lose the trust of colleagues around, and eventually become a loner.
The friendship between Marx lived in Paris, and the poet Heinrich Heine, reaching the point of Heine fairly advanced ideas of the time, wrote a lot of fighting Psalms, every night, he would recite their new work in the Marx family. Marx and Jenny together with the processing, modification, retouching, but Marx never in front of others Later, Heine has created Silesia Song of the textile workers, profoundly exposed the German reactionary rule, Marx was pleased to call him Increasingly profound friendship between the two. In 1845, the French reactionary rule unreasonable expulsion of Marx, Marx wrote a letter to Heine: Prior to departure, to leave Heine I’m pain, I really want to you together to break into my luggage. Marx also often write the creation and health status of the inquiry Heine Heine greatly missed Marx, miss Marx safety.
Whether any thing, you have to understand that making friends is loyalty to friends. Only mutually loyal friend, to let the auld lang syne. Loyal to friends, to help a friend keep a secret, to get the trust of friends.
Laughing too popular
A means of communication is more common in friends, feeling a little fight before each other too familiar with, so the exchange would be no need pedantic mode and kind of speak. Does not seem so, it becomes each other, friendship is not deep. This communication is also good, not easily determined to end my heart what would then say so. Like sprinkle the pepper, although it will make people sneeze, but the George Bernard Shaw and Winston Churchill were, in the literary world, one in politics, but it is like-minded friends. Their relationship, they travel between the contents of the letter can be seen.
George Bernard Shaw have a new play premiered in London in particular, he sent two tickets to Winston Churchill, also attached to a memo written a few words:
In politics, Churchill has been suffering from competitor attacks. Churchill look and laugh, then back to one only write a few words of the memo:
Talk master skills with clever joke, has always been in the crowd will be very popular, but also has the most friends.
Time, Wang and horseback extremely Ning Temple. Horse by the groom holding, Wang sitting immediately to enjoy the surrounding scenery, and I feel very happy.
Suddenly, the groom an oversight, the horse a fright, stumbled, Wang fell from the horse down. It scared everyone, especially the groom, but is too nervous to know what to do.
The crowd quickly propped Wang Anshi, but fortunately he was not injured. Wang Anshi looked scared shivering groom lying on the floor, a word unknown to step onto the horse with his whip pointing to the groom said: it! I slap him with a whip the horses ass and move on. Word to the right people around to laugh, to eliminate the tension scenes. Groom quickly wiped the perspiration of the head, a sigh of relief.
This way of joking among friends. Know how to tell jokes between friends, is the most popular. Smart people can always laughing tone to improve their popularity. In fact, when speaking of friends is best to use some joke to enliven the atmosphere, otherwise on the exchange of words between the unlike friends.
Laughing when you are also large can be assured, because the general language and jokes hurt people. Even in the face of a situation occur, generous heart, to take themselves to laugh at some people laugh, not only to defuse the embarrassment, but also to relax the mood, so happy to get along each other.